EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing)

Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is a research-supported approach that helps the brain reprocess distressing memories and long-standing patterns. Rather than reliving the past, EMDR supports integration, allowing emotional intensity to soften and clarity to emerge.
Melanie Goetz Upward Roots Emdr

EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) is a structured, neuroscience-informed therapy that helps your brain, body, and emotions process distressing experiences and old relational wounds so they no longer plague your life today. The eight phases of EMDR expand on the three phase trauma model for therapy: resource stability, reprocess pain, integrate new insights, providing for post-traumatic growth–a more confident, resilient you looking into the future.

We weave attention to past experiences, present triggers, and future possibilities, always building internal resources and grounding first to support your nervous system. Through guided attention, imagery, and bilateral stimulation, your brain naturally integrates old pain, fear, and stuck patterns, allowing you to feel safer, more resilient, and more able to connect authentically with yourself and others.

EMDR Training & Professional Development

I have trained extensively in a range of EMDR approaches to meet the unique needs of your trauma. Whether we are addressing a specific event, repeated experiences, something from the distant past, a recent memory, a present stressor, or a future fear, EMDR can be tailored to the right pace, focus, and intensity. From the very first session, we integrate grounding and resourcing strategies to support your nervous system and attachment longings, creating a safe and contained space for healing and processing your experiences.

2017

EMDR Basic Training

Completed during graduate school while working in a Juvenile Detention Center and Community Clinic in Chalmette, Louisiana.

2017

2019

EMDR Child Specialist, Level 1

Integrates sandtray and play therapy with EMDR for kids and teens, which I have since adapted for adult inner child parts when working on less-than-ideal childhood circumstances that continue to plague sense of self and relationship dynamics.

2019

2020

Developmental Needs Meeting Strategy (DNMS)

A parts-based EMDR approach that works directly with dissociation and unmet developmental needs, integrating therapist-to-parts conversation.

Ongoing Training
Attachment-Focused EMDR (AF-EMDR)

An approach within EMDR that is heavy in the use of relational imagery to repair early relational wounds—not just resolve memories.

Somatic EMDR

Most influenced by Dr. Arielle Schwartz through continued trainings and group consultation focused on the effects of Complex PTSD on the body.

2020

2023

Integrating Parts Work and Attachment Repair (IPAR-EMDR)

A structured approach to Parts Work within EMDR, grounded in attachment-based resources that tends to core experiences within each developmental stage of life.

2023

2023–2024

Acute and Ongoing Trauma Stress Protocols

Includes ASSYST, EMDR-PRECI, EMDR-IGTP, GTEP, C-GTEP, GPEP, and The Parenting Wheel, for both individuals and groups, for when something shocking happens and wreaks havoc on your world, and you need to process something specific, quickly to be able to cope with your day-to-day responsibilities.

2023–2024

2024

Certified EMDR Therapist (EMDRIA)

2024

2025

Relational EMDR

Focuses on meeting personal needs and emphasizes the healing power of the therapeutic relationship as we reprocess the pains of your past and fears of your future

EMDR Intensives

I attended an intensive teaching and coaching EMDR therapists in building out our ideal format for EMDR intensives for our ideal clients. With you in mind, I offer half-day to five-day intensive therapy formats designed to support focused, meaningful change ranging from single events to an overall confused identity formed through performing many survival roles for far too many years.

2025

What to Expect in EMDR Sessions

EMDR sessions are paced with careful assessment of your current life circumstances, what kind of trauma or stressor we’re working with, and how intense the side effects of this experience are for you now. We’ll begin by building a foundation of internal and external resources through somatic attunement and imagery—supporting grounding, regulation, and a felt sense of stability so your nervous system can finally exhale. 

Only when your system signals readiness, do we begin to pendulate between working with pain and resting in the ease of supportive resources, offering a new neural pathway for future change.  You will remain mentally, emotionally, and physically present and in control throughout each session.

As processing begins, we’ll follow your system’s readiness with steady attunement, allowing memory networks, emotions, and body sensations to emerge without overwhelm or retraumatization. Within the safety of the therapeutic relationship, your nervous system receives corrective experiences that support adaptive processing, emotional regulation, and felt safety. 

Over time, distress softens, coherence increases, and new internal templates for connection, trust, and self-leadership emerge—shaping how you relate to yourself and others moving forward. Throughout the process, we’ll regularly pause to check in, ensuring your nervous system feels regulated and your attachment system feels supported. This approach supports healing that feels contained, respectful, and deeply restorative, creating space for renewed clarity, resilience, and post-traumatic growth.

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Specialties EMDR Is Great For:

My work is guided by the belief that therapy should meet you where you are. Rather than relying on a single approach, I adapt and blend different methods to support your goals and what you are navigating in the moment. These are the types of sessions we may use this approach in:

Frequently Asked Questions

Starting therapy often begins with a massive sigh, an exhaustion of looking for help, for relief, for change. I welcome your curiosities and hope that you will begin to find answers to your unsettled questions on the pages of my website.

Here are answers to the most common questions I am asked about working with Upward Roots. For any additional questions, please reach out so I can support your next step of growth.

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EMDR Intensives

EMDR Intensives at Upward Roots offer a safe, supportive space to tend deeply to what has felt heavy or unresolved. These focused sessions allow you to move through past wounds, release patterns that no longer serve you, and cultivate resilience and clarity in a shorter, intentional timeframe. Intensives are available to clients in California and to those traveling from outside the state for multi-day sessions. My concentrated approach is ideal for individuals ready to process complex emotions, navigate trauma, or address long-standing patterns in a deeply supportive, personalized environment.

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