
At Upward Roots, I personally understand how mental health professionals face unique challenges. You are constantly attuned to the needs, trauma histories, and emotional states of your clients, which can leave your own nervous system overactivated, depleted, or disconnected.
Rather than a generic support space, we will focus on:
- Exploring your personal and professional patterns in a safe and confidential setting
- Strengthening your nervous system and emotional regulation skills
- Honoring the parts of yourself that carry empathy, care, and sometimes fatigue
- Developing sustainable strategies for resilience and self-care that allow you to remain grounded while supporting others
This approach allows you to tend to your own inner garden, restore balance, and grow resilience that supports both your personal well-being and professional practice.
What to Expect in Sessions
Sessions are collaborative and tailored to your needs. We may:
- Explore the cumulative impact of secondary trauma, vicarious stress, and burnout
- Track your nervous system to identify moments of overwhelm and practice polyvagal-informed regulation strategies
- Practice self-compassion, boundary-setting, and stress relief techniques
- Reflect on challenging client interactions and explore new ways to respond effectively
- Reprocess countertransference material utilizing DARe integrated EMDR
- Use somatic and parts-based interventions to release tension and restore balance
Each session begins and ends with grounding and integration techniques to help you carry the benefits of therapy into your work and daily life, allowing your inner roots to grow stronger and steadier over time.
Frequently Asked Questions About Melanie
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The Journey Behind My Work as a Therapist
- Began assisting in DARe trainings, 2025
- EMDR Intensives, Scaling Up, 2025
- The Dance of Attachment: An Introduction to Relational EMDR Therapy℠, 2025
- Somatic Experiencing, Beginning I, 2025
- Advanced EMDR for Acute Trauma and Ongoing Traumatic Stress (ASSYST, EMDR-PRECI, and the EMDR-IGTP), Scaling Up, 2024
- Dynamic Attachment Repatterning experience (DARe), 2019-2022; Certified, 2024
- Eye-Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Certified, EMDRIA, 2024
- Integrating Parts Work and Attachment Repair (IPAR) EMDR, 2023
- Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy (PACT), Level 2, 2023
- EMDR Group Protocol Series (GTEP, C-GTEP, GPEP & The Parenting Wheel), Agate Institute, 2023
- Somatic Attachment Therapy Certificate, The Embody Lab, 2022
- Started Upward Roots in October 2021
- Licensed (LMFT #128217) in September 2021
- Integrative Somatic Trauma Therapy Certificate, The Embody Lab, 2021
- Counseled children, teens, individual adults, and couples at two separate group private practices, 2018-2021
- Developmental Needs Meeting Strategy (DNMS), Trained, 2020
- EMDR Child Specialist, Level 1, Agate Institute, 2019
- Gottman Method Couples Therapy, Level 3, 2017-2019
- Counseled youth in the Juvenile Detention Center, 2016-2018
- Counseled children, couples, and adult individuals at a community center, 2016-2018
- Eye-Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR): Basic Training, EMDR Support Network, 2017
- Trust-Based Relational Intervention, New Orleans Baptist Theological Seminary Modality Course, 2015
- Began counseling college students, and, women at a rehab in 2015
- ABA Therapist, 2013-2015
- Interned at a foster agency, 2012
- Caretaker and Event Coordinator Assistant at a retirement and assisted living, 2009-2010, 2012
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MA in Marriage and Family Therapy, Spring 2018
MA in Christian Apologetics, Fall 2018
BA in Psychology with a minor in Leadership, Fall 2012
I studied in Denver, Western Europe, and New Orleans, and, have traveled extensively all with the intention of learning about family dynamics from diverse people across the country and world.
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PATH ONE I am a rule follower and appreciate the safety offered by guidelines and accountability for myself and clients. So, I would choose the therapist route again.
- A 3-year Somatic or Integral Counseling Psychotherapy degree at Naropa Bounder, CO, or CIIS in San Francisco, CA
- While enrolled in practicum, I'd recommend finding one organization for specialized EMDR that resonates with you. For me, it would have been Laurel Parnell's AF-EMDR. Staying in one organization will help you filter other models through the lens and provide you with a sense of community as you grow as a clinician, perhaps one day as a consultant and trainer. I would also learn Ego States or IFS integration for EMDR early on.
- After graduation, complete an attachment-somatic training that requires a 3-year somatic program as a prerequisite. There are several options, including Kathy L. Kain's Touch Skills for Therapists or her co-author Stephen Terrell, PsyD's Transforming Touch.
PATH TWO If you're in or graduated from a graduate counseling program that did not emphasize somatic psychotherapy, I would jump into Lisa Mortimore, PhD, and Stacy Addam Jensen, MEd's 2-year Somatic Attachment Psychotherapy Certification Program promptly after graduating. If you want something shorter, I've heard amazing things about Dr. Abi Blakeslee, an SEP with her own training program for therapists. If you feel you want more self-mapping nervous system skills, I'd lean into Deb Dana's Polyvagal Teachings. And if you're already licensed, consider Diana Fosha's AEDP certification program.
PATH THREE For someone who doesn't feel the need for an ethics board and all that comes with having an MA and being an licensed social worker or therapist, this would be a different route with a similar result.
- Become an Adult Chair Coach working with clients through a simplified parts model
- Complete the 3-year Somatic Experiencing program to become an SEP
- Then pursue, Kathy L. Kain's Touch Skills for Therapists or her co-author Stephen Terrell, PsyD's Transforming Touch, and Dr. Diane Poole Heller's DARe.
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My personal self-care, grounding habits include: tech-free quiet time, nature walks, listening to birds or the ocean waves crashing, self-massage, painting my nails, enjoying a cup of tea, deep breathing, co-regulating hugs, creative plant-based cooking, dancing freely, gardening, playing my hangpan drum, and practicing basic tai chi and qigong movements.
Approaches That Meet You Where You Are
Your sessions may draw from a combination of approaches, including:
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Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is a research-supported approach that helps the brain reprocess distressing memories and long-standing patterns. Rather than reliving the past, EMDR supports integration, allowing emotional intensity to soften and clarity to emerge.
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Somatic psychotherapy helps you reconnect with your body and the wisdom it holds. Through attuning to and understanding the needs within your physical sensations, breath, and movement, you can release stress and patterns that have been stuck for years, completing fight-flight responses and reclaiming your homeostasis.
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DARe (Dynamic Attachment Re-Patterning Experience) therapy bridges attachment theory and somatic psychotherapy, helping individuals repair attachment wounds while supporting post-traumatic growth. With simple, attuned skills, we’ll meet your core relational needs as they arise, offering corrective experiences to practice and build secure, nurturing, and resilient relationships.
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When inner conflict feels overwhelming, Parts Work helps you build a compassionate, trusting relationship with every part of yourself. By approaching each part with curiosity and care, we will gently explore your emotional patterns, easing self-criticism and anxiety while fostering clarity, compassion, and resilience.
This work is designed to support both your professional effectiveness and personal resilience, allowing you to continue helping others while staying connected to yourself and grounded in your own growth.
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